Dr. Lisa and Reena unpack the complexities of dealing with an angry and disrespectful son. In response to a letter from a concerned parent they address how to navigate power struggles and they detail effective strategies for managing disruptive behavior. In episode 170 Dr. Lisa explores the underlying dynamics at play and offers insights as to why the son may be acting out. She discusses the potential pitfalls of punishment and explores alternative approaches to discipline that prioritize repair, connection, and communication. Reena asks if punishments really work. The episode offers practical advice for fostering positive parent-child relationships, even in the context of challenging behavior.

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Episode Timestamps:

00:00 - Introduction
01:12 - Letter
03:48 - Why emotions go haywire at thirteen
09:14 - Could irritability be a sign of depression?
11:33 - What doesn't work
14:49 - What does work
20:30 - When a parent loses their temper
24:22 - Parenting to Go
26:17 - Next episode: Privacy