In our hyper-connected world it can be easy to share - and overshare - details about our kids. In episode 144 Dr. Lisa and Reena respond to a parent’s question asking about the line between staying connected with family and friends and respecting our kids' need for privacy and independence. Could oversharing harm our relationship with our kids?  When and how should parents seek permission to share? Dr. Lisa and Reena address these questions while considering how to talk with our kids about what’s appropriate to share online and what should remain private.

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Episode Timestamps:
00:00 - Introduction
00:53 - Letter
02:07 - Are we doing harm by sharing too much about our kids?
04:55 - How do you know when something is yours to share?
06:55 - At what age should parents ask for their kids’ permission?
11:31 - What if your kid does not wish to be shared?
13:35 - Social media vs. private family chat
14:54 - Dr. Lisa’s advise on social media sharing
16:09 - Age of consent
19:19 - Another way to satisfy the need to share about your kid
21:06 - Dr. Lisa’s advise for this parent
24:08 - Parenting to Go