CHILDREN OF NARCISSISTIC AND BORDERLINE PARENTS: SELF GASLIGHTING
Dr. Kim Sage, Licensed Psychologist Dr. Kim Sage, Licensed Psychologist
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 Published On Jan 26, 2022

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This video explores how and why children of Narcissistic and Borderline parents tend to gaslight themselves, as well as the different motivations for gaslighting. Additionally, we explore the steps to begin changing the patterns of self gaslighting, and why it matters to understand the core wounds of having parents who struggle with NPD or BPD, in terms of your core wounds and healing pathways.

Denying our reality, our story, our pain and wounds can keep us stuck in the trauma bonds of childhood caregivers, as well as impact our relationships patterns, and how we see ourselves today.

Because parents who struggle with disorders like Borderline or Narcissism often have differences in their core wounds and challenges, the reasons they might deny our story or experiences may differ. Then, we often end up internalizing the gaslighting we experienced by telling ourselves "It wasn't that bad......they did their best.....I know it sounds bad, but....everyone struggles...etc"

While all of those statements may feel true, it does not mean that even though our parents struggled, our pain should be minimized or doesn't matter. Yes, they struggled...AND.... our pain still matters, and we are worthy of healing and changing the story and relationship.

Please consider checking out my free course and checklist, my other courses, and how to access the private healing community with me.

As always, sending you so much love and healing.

xo

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30 Page Workbook
8 Guided Meditations
Screen Recording of 30 Page Workbook
Exercises
Journal Prompts
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FREE COURSE: "INVISIBLE WOUNDS". IDENTIFYING CHILDHOOD EMOTIONAL ABUSE AND NEGLECT
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BORDERLINE AND NARCISSISTIC PARENTS: HEALING AND DEALING WITH YOUR TRAUMA

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RE-MOTHERED: TRANSFORM YOUR WOUNDED INNER CHILD INTO A LOVING, INTERNALIZED MOTHER

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***ALL COURSES INCLUDE WORKBOOKS AND JOURNALS, GUIDED MEDITATIONS

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***Please note! I am so sorry but my practice is full at this time and I cannot accept new patients. If you would like to be added to my waitlist, please email me at [email protected] and I will email you only when a spot becomes available. I cannot guarantee a spot will open, however, so please know I care very much, but am limited at this time given my case load. Additionally, I am only able to work with California residents for weekly therapy once available. If you are interested, please also add in a few brief details in your email including your reasons for seeking treatment, current diagnoses, concerns, etc.

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