Godhumai rava mor thakkali upma

Godhumai rava 1 cup
1 1/2 cup hot water
1 tomato
1 cup mor ( butter milk)
2 or 3 tbsp oil
1/2 teaspoon mustard
1 teaspoon urad dal
Curry leaves
Salt
1 or 2 tbsp fresh coconut🥥
4 green chili