The loss of a child can kill your soul very slowly. Surviving a loss or grief of any kind is extremely painful and can cause physical damage to your body and mind . I want everyone to know that one step at a time , one moment at a time , together we can survive tragedy . We can smile again , we can love again , we can be happy again . Follow me on IG @soul_surviving or Facebook so together we can climb out of the darkness . There is nothing I will hold back . My darkest days , my longest nights , my pain and my healing . I now know , it is ok to laugh and not feel judged , it is ok to live while grieving your loved one . It is ok to allow the universe to place you where you belong . Soul survive with me and join me on this journey of surviving a death . Thank you to all of those who have reached out to me for support and for giving support . Many medical diseases are “rare” many tragedies are “rare but the truth is , these problems are not rare , they are just not spoken about . Many of us go into hiding and feel we are making others uncomfortable by our tragedy and our grief but truth is WE Need TO SPEAK OUT. We need to discuss our rare situations and we need to let others know they are not alone and we can be happy again .