Counselor Carl (http://serenityonlinetherapy.com) explains why "Detachment with Love," an Al-Anon concept, is the best approach for helping yourself in this most painful situation AND for helping your alcoholic or drug addict realize they have a problem and seek help. He states that detachment with love involves learning complex behaviors, so he describes in great detail what detachment with love is and is not. Counselor Carl's straight-forward teaching style makes complex concepts easy to understand. Counselor Carl is a licensed, professional counselor with 19 years of clinical experience both online and face-to-face.