There comes a time when the betrayed partner has had enough words and wants to see action. That time is different for all betrayeds in all sorts of situations, but that time surely does come. It's a time where the betrayed says "I don't want to hear you talk about how much you're changing....or have changed....I want to see those changes take effect. I want to see that you've changed. That you're more empathetic..... That you're actually remorseful.... That you somehow 'get it' and that you communicate and respond out of your empathy, humility and self-awareness for how you've hurt me and US." Today you'll hear more about how the unfaithful can actually show their spouse the healing, not just talk about it. You'll also hear me give words to some of the pain of the betrayed while also helping the unfaithful partner understand what the betrayed is looking for and needing in repair work.
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