When times are hard the temptation to quit is part of our human nature, but widows are stronger than that. When you feel tempted to quit, you need to say "I refuse to give up".

Widows who are determined and diligent have learned how to make it through their personal grief, to see the light at the end of grieving. You may not want to keep going, you may want to find a place to hide, but don't quit.

Give something a try, no matter how you feel about it, try first before you ask for help or hire someone to do it.