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I’m YouTube’s #1 breakup coach, Brad Browning…. And this video is for anyone who wants to get back together with their ex, but has already made some major mistakes such as begging, pleading, or apologizing over and over.

So if you know you’ve made a mistake since breaking up, and you still want your ex back… you’re going to want to watch this video all the way to the end.

First of all, let me just make one thing clear: I don’t believe in beating yourself up over past mistakes. It really won’t help you to sit around stressing out about what you’ve done or said in the wake of your breakup… so, don’t bother. Instead, just be thankful that you’ve now recognized what you did wrong, and commit yourself to getting it right from this point onwards so that you can maximize your chances of starting over with your ex. You definitely do want to avoid making further mistakes, of course, so please consider signing up for my comprehensive Ex Factor program at BreakupBrad.com to ensure you’ve got a clear, proven strategy moving forward.

Let’s begin with one of the single most common mistakes people make: begging and pleading their ex. I completely understand why people do this after a breakup… it seems logical that gushing your heart out and telling your ex how much you love them and miss them would potentially convince them to give your relationship another chance. But, trust me on this one… it DOES NOT work like that. In fact, begging your ex for another chance… apologizing over and over again for things you’ve done or said… telling them how you feel about them… all of these things are going to actually do the opposite of what you’re hoping for. This type of thing almost always hurts your chances.


#1 - Use my ‘Clean Slate’ Message template.

The Clean Slate message is something I’ve come up with to help erase the negative image of you that your ex has in the back of their mind. It’s not something you can just send out of the blue, and it should only be used in very specific situations, so I’m not going to share the full message with you here in this video… but, if you’ve really made some major mistakes since the initial breakup and you’re confident your ex has a highly negative impression of you right now, you can sign up for my Ex Factor program risk-free and learn more about how to use this powerful copy-and-paste message to erase some of those negative thoughts in your ex’s mind.

#2 - Employ the No Contact strategy.

Look, I know you don’t want to hear about No Contact again… I’m sure you’re already aware of what this strategy is, and how well it works… but shutting down all communication with your ex is absolutely critical to shifting their perception of you and helping to undo past mistakes.

Another advantage to using the No Contact strategy? You can’t make any more mistakes when you’re not interacting with your ex at all.

Simply put, No Contact works, and it’s a great way to help “reset” your ex’s emotions and return them to an “emotional neutral” state.

#3 - Subtly show your ex what they’re missing.

Remember what I said earlier about the importance of conveying to your ex that you’re NOT desperate, needy, and sitting around heartbroken over the breakup? Well, there’s plenty of ways you can subtly sub-communicate this to your ex.

Another way to achieve the same thing is to make subtle comments when speaking with your ex, or mutual friends you have in common… so for instance, you could -- once your No Contact period is over, of course -- send your ex a text message asking them, “Hey, does your friend Paul still organize weekly scuba dives? A friend and I just finished our scuba certification and we’re looking for new people in town to dive with this summer.”

Of course, you’ll need this to actually be TRUE -- don’t just randomly start lying about this type of thing to your ex. But, as you can see, this message appears totally benign and believeable… you’re just asking your ex a simple, legitimate question. But subtly, you’re also hinting that you’ve just finished your dive certification, and therefore you’re doing fun, exciting, and interesting stuff since the breakup… and you’re even creating a sense of mystery by referring to an unnamed “friend”, which will make your ex wonder who this person is and why you didn’t mention them by name.

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