I’m fascinated by the modern day notion of masculinity — a much more fragile concept than we may acknowledge at first glance or passing thought.

Masculinity is often presented as an imperative, a badge to be continuously earned through actions, rituals, and ongoing duties. As the definition and associated expectations of masculinity have changed dramatically in the last several decades, we are left in a nebulous state when ascertaining exactly what masculinity means in modern society.

We typically think of the masculine identity as a position of power, but is that the lived experience? In my office, I am often presented with men who feel powerless or those who feel lost in how to present masculinity in a safe, respectful way. Understanding both the intrinsic privilege and the vulnerability of the masculine experience gives us a more balanced viewpoint.

Let’s have a conversation - what is your perception of modern masculinity? Whether you are living that experience as a predominant identity, or observing from another vantage point.