Luke 14:26
“If anyone comes to me and does not hate father and mother, wife and children, brothers and sisters—yes, even their own life—such a person cannot be my disciple."

John 12:25
"Anyone who loves their life will lose it, while anyone who hates their life in this world will keep it for eternal life."

Matthew 10:39
"Whoever finds their life will lose it, and whoever loses their life for my sake will find it."