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At its core, sexual polarity is the dance of love light and consciousness.

The instrument for expression is the body (Fem - light/Masc - Consciousness).

Need the body to feel the love and the depth of the consciousness. The grounded deep consciousness of the masculine witnesses everything happening in this moment. When we concentrate everything happening in the essence of love light, or into the gaze, breath posture, now we're cooking. Now, we get to move with these things.

That is the nature of Polarity. Simple but not easy practice.

The 3 Pillars of Sacred Intimacy:
1. Intimacy (amplify our sameness, our shared humanness, spiritual essence, shoot for oneness)
2. Devotion to love (devotional to what will liberate love more than devotional to being right, protecting yourself, playing out my childhood patterns, withdrawing, punishing),
3. Sexual Polarity (how we're different, the range of energy between two people)

8 Top Questions and Topics Touched:

1. How does the polarity within ourselves help to extend it into partnership?

Feel the pulse of life that is living you, bring your awareness to it, and feel what it is being experienced. When with a partner, let go of some of the awareness, and let your partner be the awareness, and amplify the experience - or vice versa.

When we enter into a partnership, we sometimes have to allow our partner's nervous system to acclimate to our energetic openness and practice. Sometimes, we are ahead of our partners. Women are evolutionarily ahead of men in this type of practice.

2. Boundaries are getting crossed—how can we work with this?

If your boundaries are crossed there always has to be a consequence for a crossed boundary. Sometimes you have to have a clear conversation if they cannot do what you are asking them to do. If she doesn't feel safe, she may be withheld. She may be cautious.

3. New relationship - moved in together with a child in the mix.

When we commit to creating a family, our brain goes, "Now I am back home" - our child wounds come online. What bothers us about our partners is what bothered us in our childhoods.

4. How to work with a partner who is dismissive/avoidant.

if you are in a relationship with someone who is unaware they are, you are setting yourself up for torture, or you have to be willing to accept it. Giving everything to an avoidant/dismissive means that you love them with lots of space, without expecting them to own their part.

5. Desire to express anger so they can metabolize it (without blowing their system).

Opt for the immediate response to what is true. This is an invitation to dive into your broken-hearted anguish and be wide with it.


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