Discover the hidden dangers of helping others, even family and friends, through Zen and Buddhist philosophy. In this thought-provoking video, we explore how altruism can backfire and harm both the giver and the receiver. Drawing from timeless Buddhist teachings and insights from Zen masters, we examine how the desire to help can stem from ego, attachment, and misunderstanding. By discussing non-duality and the illusion of the separate self, we reveal how helping can sometimes be self-serving behavior in disguise. Through real-life examples and storytelling, we'll guide you through pitfalls like: Enabling unhealthy behavior Neglecting your own needs Fostering dependency Overstepping boundaries Causing resentment We'll also discuss discernment, compassion, and the balance between helping and letting go. By understanding the dark side of helping, you'll learn to offer genuine support while maintaining healthy boundaries and self-care practices. Join us on this journey of self-discovery and learn to navigate the complex world of helping others with wisdom, clarity, and a touch of Zen.

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