We need to stop relying on negative presumptions and the stories we believe others are telling themselves about us. Instead, Teresa Lodato shows us how we can form genuine connections by challenging assumptions with powerful questions, approaching each situation with a clear and open-minded curiosity. Teresa's exceptional breadth and depth of expertise includes a master's level background in psychology, advanced certifications in neuroscience, relational trauma and the psychology of negotiation. As an author and entrepreneur, she understands being successful in life doesn't always equate to feeling fulfilled. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at https://www.ted.com/tedx