Questioning whether monogamy, or non-monogamy, is the right choice for you? If you don’t know what you want, you’ll get what your partner gives you. Clarity is essential in supporting your dating goals and in choosing the relationship model that’s right for you.

We live in an evolving world, and the choices we make in our relationship designs reflect that evolution. The active word here is “choice.”

Monogamy and non-monogamy represent two distinct paths, each with its own set of advantages and challenges. We need to know the pros and cons of each model in order to choose what’s right for us.

But the great news is that this decision-making process isn’t static- it’s dynamic and ever-evolving as we grow in our experience of life, and within the relationship itself.

Intentional relationships with clear structures eliminate the confusion and heartache of situationships and murky ‘whatever-whatevers.’ Embracing a growth mindset within our relationship allows us to continually grow, refine, and optimize.

Monogamy doesn’t have to feel static and boring. Non-monogamy doesn’t have to feel terrifying and out of control. But whatever choice we make, we need clear communication as to the terms of engagement and the rules around this infrastructure. Both parties need to be in alignment and in agreement.

If you don’t know how to do that-- check out my consultation page, “The À La Carte Love Method.” I’ll guide your through the steps you need to gain clarity and live in alignment with your authenticity.
https://susanwinter.net/consultation/
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00:00 Introduction
00:32 Don't 'Assume'
01:05 Be Proactive
01:16 Monogamy Design
02:34 Non-Monogamy Design
04:23 Clarity
04:50 Choosing Your Design