Understanding and Accepting Adult Diaper Use and Pleasure: A Non-Judgmental Approach. — Treat the individual with respect and kindness, recognizing that everyone has their own preferences and desires. — Consider joining a diaper lover support group if you want to learn more or seek support. Many individuals who engage in diaper behavior find it helpful to talk to others who share their interests.. 4 - Help them wear diapers discreetly. If someone is concerned about wearing a diaper in public, offer to help them find ways to wear diapers discreetly. This may include finding patterns that are more difficult to notice or even wearing loose-fitting clothing that can help mask the diaper. — Recognize that wearing a diaper for long periods of time, such as 24 hours a day, can be a challenge. Offer support and encouragement to help the individual achieve their goals comfortably and safely. — Remember that wearing a diaper is a personal choice and not something that should be forced on anyone. Respect the individual’s boundaries and preferences at all times.