Akothee broke up with Omosh, it's assumed that he is the problem. Brown Mauzo and Vera Sidika broke up, it's assumed that Brown was the problem. Even when the same Vera Sidika broke up with Otile Brown, it was assumed that he was the one in the wrong. While these are prominent break ups, it points to an interesting trend where men are automatically assumed to be the bad one when a relationship ends. This is partly because men don't want to come out and share their side of the story. We discuss that and more in this episode of Manspeqtive Africa.