Clay Andrews shares 5 steps to get your ex back and the things that your ex needs to know from you before they are ready to recommit.

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There are really 5 steps to get your ex back and to get them to want to commit to you again.

The first thing you need to do is to apologize in a way that will help clear the path to connecting with them.

If your ex is holding on to some sort of grudge or hurt feelings toward you, you must apologize for whatever you did wrong so that your ex can let go of those hurt feelings and the two of you can start to come together again.

This is critical if you want to create a strong connection. But this is only necessary if your ex actually needs an apology for something you did. If that’s not the case then you can skip this portion.

Second, you wan to have positive interactions with your ex. This means that you want to be able to connect with them in a meaningful and significant way.

This shows your ex that the two of you can have connections of substance together that go beyond surface level connection.

The third thing is that you want to show empathy toward your ex. You don’t just want to intellectually show your ex that you understand what they are going through, but you want to build empathy with them and show that you understand how whatever they are experiencing is impacting them on an emotional level.

The fourth thing that you want to do to get back together with your ex is to build trust with them.

This will probably take some time since trust is something that is built over time. There isn’t a magic combination of words that will make your ex trust you again. You simply have to let it happen over time.

And finally, you want to show your ex that they are not coming back into the same relationship that they walked out of in the first place.

You need to show your ex that something has changed and that getting back together is going to be completely different than what they left when they broke up with you.

These are the steps to getting back together with your ex.