Dark erotic energy is a nutrient many of us crave more of.

I see this all the time in workshops.

Feminine partners in particular, often crave more dark energy from their masculine partner—sometimes not even realizing their partners unintegrated shadow is what is causing mistrust.

They actually trust their partners less as lovers when this kind of energy is lacking.

She wants to feel the part of you that is dangerous, can protect her, ravish her, take her IF she wanted you to.
So many men have repressed or denied this part of their primal natures, and it shows in the bedroom.

It shows up as passive aggressive “nice guy” syndrome or tension and unease in the body.

Men are often scared or ashamed of these parts and for good reason.

They have abused this heart disconnected power for millennia.

But we are primal beings at our cores.

And that primal nature must be owned and integrated consciously—or it will come out unconsciously as rage, addictions to porn…or even worse…emotional or physical violence.

How do we do this?

In a sacred container of practice that encourages heart connection, full ownership and integration, witnessed in love….not shame.

That is why cultivation of your “dark lover, fierce warrior or sacred dominant” is essential for the most profound intimacy.

Your erotic body has an incredible capacity to transmute shadow into transcendent love…if you make it your ally.

Darkness in service to love is sacred. In service to our unowned anger or hunger is abuse.

The practice is about integrating dark, primal energies with a loving heart.

Developing this skill involves deep work with others who want to feel ALL OF YOU…and then bringing these energies to your partner and the world as a gift.

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