This is my story of how I figured out my identity and how it has impacted me. I hope it's helpful for anyone who's questioning or researching, or at least interesting, and I hope you all have a good day/night!


Something else that I should probably mention: my life is a constant stream of "But am I actually ace or aro though?" occasionally interrupted by moments of "YES I AM INCREDIBLY ACE AND ARO WOW"


HOW DID I FORGET TO TELL YOU ABOUT THE BUS
I was on the bus with some people from my youth group, accompanied by one of my aforementioned guy friends, and they asked me if he was my boyfriend, and I jokingly answered "Yes. He's a boy and he's my friend, so therefore he is technically a boyfriend." I thought it was hilarious. Probably didn't help my situation, but I was proud of it.