Why do we judge, label and blame others? Is this is 'natural' or conditioned response to disconnect? What is the root? What Does A Healthy Repair Look Like?

Fish explains why we analyse and label others when we are hurt, and how our tendency to do so is the very cause of escalating opposition and conflict.

In This Episode We Discuss...

How to Repair Upset & Conflict In Relationships.
We hear about his powerful 'Self Validation Practice'.
Acknowledging Peoples Pain and Validating it.
Recognise, Articulate & Validate Pain will Transfrom Relationships.
Dissolving The Victim & Victor.
Speaking To The Goodness


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CHAPTERS
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0:00 - Intro
03:01 - 1) What We Need To First Start With
05:35 - 2) Acknowledging The Missing Data
11:19 - 3) Owning Our Judgments
21:47 - 4) A Practice To Bridge Connection
28:03 - 5) The Invitation - Acknowledging Someones Pain
33:05 - 6) Meeting Pain With Love & Parenting
37:32 - 7) How Badly Do You Want Repair?
43:11 - 8) How This Work Touches Parenting?
46:28 - 9) Speak To The Goodness
53:28 - 10) The Nice Guy/Girl Syndrome
59:20 - 11) Dissolving Defensiveness
1:16:46 - 12) How We Grow In Our Capacity To Hold THs
1:22:05 - 13) Collectivism vs Individualism
1:27:36 - 14) Big News
1:29:27 - 15) Who Inspires James?