If you’re over 40, then you’ve probably experienced what it’s like to become invisible, as both I and the latest Howl priestess, Kellye Rowland have. One day, you discover that men stop looking at you. Men – even men older than you – stop seeing you as a viable sexual partner.

It’s like you no longer exist.

Interestingly, there’s a lot of joy and freedom in this. What a delight it is to be able to roam the world freely, without having to fend off unwanted attention.
But it also makes you realize just how much our culture objectifies women. Our worth is only as good as our sexual viability.

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ABOUT KELLYE:

As a human whose life trajectory looks more like a jagged line than a smooth upward tilt, Kellye has now put down roots in the theatre town of New York City. You may recognize Kellye from her two-year stint with Jay Leno, bringing late night comedy to the Clinton scandal on The Tonight Show. She is also the latiest late bloomer who ever bloomed, and graduated from Smith College with a degree in Theatre and Philosophy at 42.

Kellye’s vibe is part everyone’s-favorite-nurse/therapist, part unhinged alcoholic; a strong, grounded, funny empath with a vulnerable intensity. She just co-produced and is a lead in her own original series “Peri-Street” and plans to shoot more episodes in the coming months. Originally from the Pacific Northwest, the lovely evergreen Washington state to be exact, Kellye has lived and worked in L.A. and San Diego as well as in her current home, New York City.

Kellye’s website: https://www.kellyerowland.com/

Kellye on Instagram:   / kellye_rowlandnyc  

Kellye on Twitter:   / kellye_rowland