Are you being nice or people pleasing? Here are 3 psychological differences between a secure person (who just happens to be kind), and an insecure person who’s people pleasing.

The similarities between nice people and people pleasers are pretty obvious:
1: Both of them like seeing others happy.
2: Both the secure person and the people pleaser goes above and beyond for others
3: Both the big-hearted person and the insecure person don’t like conflict.

In this video, we cover the 3 important differences of being nice vs people pleasing.

Remember, at the end of the day, it’s the INTENT behind a lot of these behvaiors that matter.


*CONTENT*
00:00 Intro
00:29 Definition of a Nice Person vs People Pleaser
01:33 Commonalities
01:50 1. Need vs Want
03:56 2. Asking for Help
05:59 3. Tolerating Conflict


*FREE GUIDE*
10 Strategies for How to STOP People Pleasing
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