Just DO THE THINGS THAT ARE GOOD FOR YOU.

Stop thinking the external validation you are going to receive is the reason to do it.

The more we shift our focus on finding validation and happiness internally we realize that the THINGS WE ARE DRAWN TO are FOR US, so that we can be for everyone else.

Mind, body, spirit. Just focus on keeping those in check! Generate positive habits in all of those areas. Watch what happens to your life and your serenity internally. THEN, the external stuff starts to fall into place because you now OPERATE in. way that makes it all makes sense and you start to see things with clarity.